This might make some ppl suck they teeth or turn they lips up but guess what THAT'S WHAT THE TRUTH DOES! I have a very big problem with women who have kids by men who actually WANT to be in their Childs life. Why do these women feel like they can use that child as a pawn to get what they want from the father? I'm gone tell you why CAUSE THEY BITTER...that man ain't trying to be with her no more and moved on. This is where the BM DRAMA comes in....she wanna tell him he can't see his child because she don't want her baby around the new woman or whatever....well I'm here to say GET OVER IT! I am a stepmother to 9 children and I have NEVER treated then any different from my own children! Although I'm not with ANY of their fathers I am still very supportive of everything they all do. My kids fathers don't deal with NO BS from me cause 1 it causes stress to me 2 my kids are allowed to form their OWN opinions of them and 3 I don't bash my bds AT ALL! I laid down with them and at that time they was ALL THAT so what I look like ruining around saying oh he ain't ish or tell my kids fk him....nah I did the MATURE thing and decided if I'm going to be a single mom I would raise my kids to where their fathers would be period to have a child with me. I have seen so much drama from bms it's ridiculous! Then the same ones yelling oh he ain't ish be still laying up with him.....it shouldn't have to take a man that wants to be a part of his Childs life to have to go through the motions with his unstable Babymama! Let these men see they kids! So what if he don't got money to support them financially TIME is way more important than MONEY...you can't create memories with MONEY! Re evaluate yourself and ask WHY ARE U ACTING LIKE AN IMBECILE! My father DIDN'T DO ANYTHING FOR ME FINANCIALLY but I wish he was here cause our phone conversations meant so much to me. My stepfather (Dennis Norman) raised me and as I got older I realized he had WAY MORE BIOLOGICAL kids besides my Lil brother! Yes I do call Pookie and Anthony my brothers and Jjuane my Lil sister....no I don't know the situation with why or if he wasn't part of their lives like he was for me and my brothers. But one thing I will say IF IT WAS DRAMA BETWEEN MY MOM AND THEIR MOMS I DIDN'T KNOW OF IT! I respect my stepdad still to this day for stepping up and taking care of kids that wasn't his and I respect my father for letting him! I didn't find out until I was about 12 that Dennis wasn't my biological father.....never changed a thing tho! He is the reason I adore my stepkids....STOP PUTTING BAD THOUGHTS INTO THESE KIDS MIND about their fathers! Allow him to come around and BE a father! U didn't make the kids on your own so let these fathers be there! Your child will only grow up resenting you for keeping their father away! I guess this is why I don't have drama with any of mines cause ion be worried bout what they CAN'T do....I value what they CAN! I can only tell you how it's not affecting you....it's affecting those children.....stop acting a fool and let them kids be around the other part of their family!! I lost my damn train of thought now....so I gotta close this blog out....but let me say this YOU WASN'T TRIPPING WHEN HE WAS DICKIN U DOWN FROM THE FRONT BACK LEFT AND RIGHT!!!
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