Are you a damn good woman?

I see it all the time and also have been the victim of being A DAMN GOOD WOMAN....I don't understand how a man can disrespect the leading lady in his life to the point where she feels she needs to keep validating his actions! I used to be that woman as well...you know the one that he hurt because it made him feel good about himself, the one he would tear down just to build himself up you know the one who loved him inside and out!! Ladies we need to be and do better as women! We don't need a man to validate anything in our lives! The way we build him up we need to build ourselves! We need to break that fear of holding onto longevity and everything we put into the relationship and start learning to be HAPPY ALONE! Once we give a man POWER to control our mind and our emotions we give up our self love, respect and understanding of what it actually means to BE a good woman! We need to stop allowing these men to treat us as if THEY ARE WHO WE WORSHIP! This is the problem in society today....some of these men are inspired by what they see on TV or how they see their other friends treat their woman and they start to incorporate that type of lifestyle into the relationship they have at home! Which brings up the term "ALL MEN ARE DOGS" or "AIN'T NO GOOD MEN OUT HERE" I disagree with that....there are good GOD FEARING men out here and you will know them by the way they do things...how they were raised....it's in their talk...their walk EVERYTHING about him will scream GOOD MAN! But we be too busy trying to fix WHAT'S ALREADY BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR and letting that "GOOD MAN" stand by and watch! Once a man makes your SOUL BLEED and cry out...the relationship is way past over! Things will only get worse! So until you remove yourself from a man who belittles you, disrespects you, disrespects your role in his life YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE TREATED LIKE A "DOG HE TRAINED"..But always forgive him it's the only way you will be able to pick yourself up and move forward!! A good woman knows her worth and if that means spending years by herself in order for a good man to find and appreciate her.....then so be it!! DO YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH?