2/07/2014

A man WILL change FOR the woman he loves

If you've ever wondered does true love really exist and can a person really change to be with the one they love...then the answer is YES!!!! This blog is based on a real life love story and I'm honored to have been part of this AMAZING journey! (I won't be using their names because you know how some ppl will read this and hate on REAL LOVE)

13 Yrs ago I wanted to take my friend out to have some fun. I told her we was going to a party in the Bend..she was very reluctant on going tho but I convinced her lol...When we got there I was to introduce her to this guy she saw him and was like uh no...then she asked me "Who is that fine dark dude" I'm like I have no idea! He walks over introduces himself to her and immediately they had a real good vibe! Eventually they started a relationship and right then I knew he was THE ONE! Like any relationship they had their problems...he was the party guy.. she was the workaholic...and she did NOT like the fact that he was a ladies man! After awhile she couldn't deal with all the constant partying and women every weekend, the phone calls etc.. .I used to tell her no matter what that MAN LOVES YOU and YOUR KIDS and one day HE WILL BE YOUR HUSBAND! She did not like that idea she was like oh heck no he won't he doing too much!! (Now don't get it twisted..her and her kids ALWAYS came first in his life) Finally she had enough of his BS and left! They stayed apart for 10 yrs. She began her walk with God and stayed faithful to God only and he was somewhere being him! Eventually they both ended up marrying and divorcing other ppl but through all that time I would ask her had she seen HIM or talked to him she said NO...I would tell her the smile you used to have was because of him. One day she was going through some things and I told her GO FIND HIM..he is the only man that completes you and makes you feel loved! Took her awhile but she found him...they immediately fell right back in love with each other and after all these years he decided to do whatever it took to keep her in his life FOR  GOOD! He stopped clubbing, drinking, smoking weed and GAVE HIS LIFE TO CHRIST! He is a walking testimony to how GOOD GOD TRULY IS! Through his faithfulness to God he was able to LEARN how to PROTECT,PROVIDE,COMMUNICATE AND TRULY LOVE her! Here they are today HAPPILY MARRIED for 4 years, own a home and he stepped right back into her kids life as if he never left!  I salute these two because you would've had to been there through this journey to see this love story unfold. They are prime examples of how a person can change in order to build a live that was once gone away!

If you truly love someone YOU have the power to keep them!! See the enemy KNEW this was a LOVE FROM GOD so he tore it apart...but what the devil meant for bad God meant for good! Them departing was a good thing because it allowed God to PREPARE AND CONDITION the both of them for a successful marriage!!!!!

I'm thankful to have been part of such an amazing journey with them because it showed me ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WHEN YOU LET GOD DO HIS JOB and A MAN CAN CHANGE FOR THE WOMAN HE LOVES!!!!!

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