I dedicate this blog to all the women who have been through something and can't seem to find that happiness!
I was once in your shoes! Waking up angry at the world..going to sleep next to the person who I know isn't for me but yet have that fear of being alone! Accepting all the bs he puts me through because years had been invested into the relationship..popping the lock codes on his phone so I can snoop through and see what female he been talking to behind my back...arguing..fighting..putting him out..taking him back..RINSE AND REPEAT! Yes I know that feeling all too well...I'm just glad I decided to CHANGE my environment and do what makes ME happy!
Ladies let me tell you there is NOTHING I mean absolutely NOTHING wrong with being by yourself! It gives you time to LOVE YOURSELF! If it's not working out in your relationship and u keep getting signs or catching your man...it's NOT your "woman intuition" it's GOD revealing to you that YO MAN AIN'T THE MAN FOR YOU! Honey chile it ain't nothing you can say to me that will move me to believe something different! I held on to a man for 11 yrs thinking the same way you're thinking! I go to sleep and wake up SMILING! Ya know why...because I have learned that all I EVER needed was the love of God! Once I learned to love HIM I learned to love myself! We as women put so much love into a man that we go blind to the facts and deaf to the truth! Don't you know you gotta let GOD make him a MAN before you can make him a husband? Do you know that the beauty you have on the outside becomes hidden because you have allowed this man to make you think no one else will want you? YOU have a power called "self love" that is untouchable...it's the kryptonite to every bad seed your man had planted within you! Girl you better get up get cute (even if you don't got nowhere to go) grab some self respect and keep it moving! LOVE is a powerful drug...and once it's used on yourself can't NOBODY take that away! Ain't no sense in you finding all these EXCUSES on why you can't be by yourself....yea yea yea I hear you saying "ain't no good men out here I might as well stay with the one I been with all this time" THE devil IS A LIE! There are some really good men....but you probably passed him up thinking he was "thirsty" oh and I hear you saying "well why u ain't got no man then" Girl if you knew better you'd do better...I don't have no man because I ain't LOOKING...it's called WAITING...oh trust me...my man is out there...he's being fixed up by GOD! Boom! Which is why I can sit back relax and enjoy my days! You should try it....happiness makes you look and feel younger....forgive that man that keeps hurting you....then you will have peace! I ain't gone tell you again....get up get cute and watch the reaction from yo "no good man" I bet y'all get to arguing because HE KNOWS YOU CAN GET A MAN WAY BETTER THAN HIM! I hope you find that self love and start showing it off....you're beautiful so why not show it?!!!
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